Archive for August, 2009

You want proof??

Sunday, August 30th, 2009
Outside of Flagstaff, AZ

on US Hwy. 180

Read The Caption on the first photo, then look at the second photo…

Look at the picture above and you can see where this driver
broke through the guardrail, on the right side of the culvert,
where the people are standing on the road & pointing.

The pick-up was traveling about 75 mph from right to left
when it crashed  through the guardrail.
It flipped end-over-end, bounced off and  across the culvert outlet and
landed right side up on the left side of the culvert,
facing the opposite direction from which the driver was traveling.

The 22-year-old driver and his 18-year-old passenger
were unhurt except for minor cuts and bruises.

Now look at the second picture below…

If this guy didn’t

believe in GOD before,

do you suppose he believes now?

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Not quite the Bridges of Madison County

Friday, August 28th, 2009

Last week, the transmission on the Jeep decided to take a hike.  Actually, it began to disintegrate.  At least, that’s what the mechanic said.  Both of them.  As blessings (not luck) would have it, I have a golf cart to use to get around.  Living in The Villages, one can get to anything in a golf cart.  You do NOT know how much of a blessing that is UNTIL you are without gasoline fueled transportation.

I can’t get to the Post Office, at least, not to the one where my PO Box is…but other than that, except for trips to Leesburg or Tampa, I’m good.

But…I digress.  As usual.

It was just 4 months ago…I became a Villager.  I joined the golf cart bunch and took out on my very first solo golf cart ride.  Hard to believe so much life has been lived in such a short time.

Yes, another 4 months have gone by…and, the blessings continue.  As do the trials and tribulations.  The huge bruise on my thigh is diminishing, the hard lump, a hematoma is what the lady at the Blood Bank told me it was, is also shrinking.  The 1/4 inch thick glass dining room table top is a memory, but the knowledge that I survived, practically unscathed, after landing on top of the breaking pieces, as they were also falling, and bouncing, as they hit the concrete and shattered…a miracle to be sure.

A few days ago, I was searching on the web for a possible car to replace the Jeep, even if I am able to bring the Mustang down, who knows how long it will run without needing repair.  Both vehicles are gas guzzlers…at some point, perhaps a fuel efficient car might be called for…  Anyway, while searching for a vehicle…I found an ad for a $25 GLASS TABLE TOP!!   Not the dining room table size, but a 4 ft x 4 ft size, easier to move, I learned today!   There is a wonderful, 60 year married, couple who are enjoying that table top tonight.  Courtesy of VillagesBuySell.com which is where I found it.  No one is asking me, but in my mind, another miracle, find that table top…

Every night I read a passage from the Bible.   I just open and read whatever is there.  Tonight, I had just finished thinking that I wasn’t sure what to believe, and other things along those lines.  I mean, besides the miracles and blessings I speak about in these posts, there are those who would say “it’s just luck” or some such sentiment.

I opened to Daniel, the chapter about Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego…and the fiery furnace.  I read what I had learned as a small child, how they were cast into the furnace bound, but were soon seen to be walking, no longer bound, and seemingly not harmed by the flames raging around them.  Could the text actually be God speaking to me?

Depends on who you ask.

We don’t hear those kinds of miracle stories these days, the Shadrach, Meschach and Abednego kind of stories, unless you consider those  kinds of times when someone is pulled out of some sort of wreckage, alive,  after days without food or water.   When the full weight of that glass table top shifted onto my thigh, and when I fell forward as the table slipped from the edge of the tailgate of the truck, I fell right into and onto the breaking glass.   I experienced the bruising where the edge of the table hit my thighs and then “bounced” down towards my knees…I had some cuts on my right leg, my right hand and my right thigh, even cut through the pair of shorts I was wearing.  I had soreness in all those areas the following days…but it was the reality of what didn’t happen, and what could have happened…that is why I am reading the Bible.  Just one of the reasons.

There is the “darkness”…and there is the “light”.  For me, the light  is riding through the first underground tunnel in a golf cart on the way to Lake Sumter Landing.   Prior to that glorious experience (you had to be there!), I had heard from someone that the gas fumes in the tunnels are awful, just awful.   I may hold my breath from one end to the other, but that is just part of the joy, and freedom, of life in a golf cart community.

It’s been nearly 6 weeks or so perhaps, when someone in front of me experienced the very same tunnel for the first time…there is a dip as one approaches the tunnels and the cart can gain speed if you don’t account for the dip.  There were two people in the cart, and to be honest, I wondered what the heck they were doing…I didn’t learn until the end of the second tunnel that it was their first time.  They told me, as they stopped golf cart traffic to make a u-turn, after they learned that there was no Publix shopping center on that side of  Highway 466.  The reason I’m talking about them at all, though, was the fact that as they raced towards the entrance of the tunnel, turned sharply so as not to drive straight into the wall in front of them, and then all the way through the tunnel, they both shrieked at the top of their lungs, similar to what you would hear at 6 Flags Over Georgia (or Texas, or wherever that other 6 Flags is).

I didn’t shriek my first time though, not out loud anyway.

And EVERY TIME, every time, I get into that cart, and listen to the “beep, beep, beep” as I back out of the garage and down the driveway…I am grateful.   Every time.

There have been a lot of dark nights of the soul, even in the 4 months I’ve lived in heaven.  And, just yesterday, I heard very sad and hard to listen to stories, of friends and friends of friends, who are going through really rough times.

I realized, for now, I am living in a wonderland.  A beautiful home, on a beautiful and natural preserve, WITH A GOLF CART!   There hasn’t been time to go to the squares as much as I’d like, but every night there is live entertainment IF I had the free time to go.  And, the SPIRIT of The Villages is all around me.  The friendly, smiling faces of the neighbors who pass by the house where I am blessed to be able to live.  The owls which fly at dusk.  The gators growing up in front of my eyes.

All of it.

A fumes filled tunnel, or a fumes free tunnel, not quite what you would consider to evoke nostalgic memories…not quite the Bridges of Madison County, but a wonderful memory I’ll always cherish.  Heck, I cherish it today.

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Midnight Shuttle Launch

Friday, August 28th, 2009

I went to bed at 10:15PM or so…and nearly two hours later…still awake.

After the second time up, checked the clock to find the shuttle was nearing the time for lift-off…so…what the heck…out to the back porch and just like the last daytime shuttle, from the comfort of this place I now call home…I watched the launch.   After a couple of tries, this time the sky lit up behind the trees and after what seemed like minutes, there it was…

The shuttle launch at night allows one to view the shot a lot longer than during the day…which can be some cause for alarm.  I had to turn on the TV to find out that all was going well…because from where I was watching, it appeared that the shuttle was falling from the sky…

It wasn’t…a perfect shot, and after a few more minutes…word that everything was still perfect and that the shuttle and crew were safely in orbit.

Thank goodness.

After talk of mechanical issues which stopped the last attempt…you have to wonder when the shuttle seems to be going sideways instead of UP after lift-off.  I know, I know…the curvature of the earth, etc., etc…  During the daylight shot you don’t really get to see evidence of the curvature that you see during a night shot.

Food and Science and Humans on the way into space.  With a piece of exercise equipment.

Gotta love it.

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A year in review, 2008

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

This past April I applied for an extension for my 2008 taxes.   On July 14, I called the IRS to ask for another extension, and…I also asked about the status of the money I owed for 2007.  I took a distribution on my 401K towards living expenses and I didn’t put any of it away for the taxes and penalties.  I’ve written repeatedly about lessons and about how I’m becoming a different person.  Not sure if I’ve used those words or not, but a different person is a good description if you compare the person I was in 2004 with the person I am today.  The funny thing is, in some ways, I’m still the same person I was in 1977…but that is not what this post is about.  This post is about what I discovered while preparing for my 2008 taxes…

I save receipts.

I file bank statements.

I am organized.   Oh, wait.  That was the person back in 2004.  The person I have become is somewhat disorganized and, as a result of moving 6 times in 2008, has lost track of where most everything is…  Today I was preparing for a trip back to Georgia and I came across some software that I had packed along with something totally unrelated.  Software I’ve been looking for, so it was a great find.  But it just made me so much more aware of the lack of structure in my life today.  I don’t really know where a lot of things are…but, thankfully, I have a handle on the documentation required for tax preparation.  That’s a good thing.

So anyway, while sorting through the paperwork, the organization part of me in full force, I decided to put my gas receipts in order.

What?

I know, I know…WHO puts gasoline receipts in order?

WHO EVEN KEEPS GASOLINE RECEIPTS?

I have always written the trip odometer reading on each receipt…started doing that years ago, it was either my mom or my dad, but one of them impressed me with the necessity of knowing the mileage.  What happened while I organized the receipts was an enlightening.  I was able to relive 2008.  The pain, the joy, the discovery…all of it, as a result of writing mileage on little slips of paper.

I was waiting to donate blood, without an appointment, and so I had brought the slips of paper with me, along with a clipboard and a pad of  paper… And I recorded the location, the price of gasoline, and the mileage and I marveled at what happened in my life.  Rather than elaborate on the specifics, suffice it to say that I have so much to be grateful for, along with a lot of painful memories and hardships.  I heard a clip of Ted Kennedy tonight on the special they had prepared for his passing.  In it he spoke about how the sea is a lot like life.  Storms come up, seemingly out of nowhere, there is turmoil and fear and sadness.  And then the storm passes, there are changes, life goes on.  And there are beautiful, sunny days where there is not a care in the world.

2008 was like that for me.  I would not have had it any other way.   I remember driving across the state line into Louisiana.   It felt like coming home for me, and I’d never lived in Louisiana.  I suppose I was coming back to myself, to living a life where I was the person I worried about, shopped for, and planned for again.  The care and concern for those I left back in Georgia still a part of my life, but just as the peripheral vision, no longer my direct focus.

There is a story to tell about the mileage and the places where I purchased the fuel that allowed me to travel to and fro…but for now, this post will do.  Mainly, I just wanted to remind myself that my quirks are my jewels…they are what makes me special, ok, different.  Unique.

I had to laugh…I learned that I had driven over 13 thousand miles in a vehicle, which the repairman who checked it over before I left had told me, “is not worth fixing”.  I have told people that, if you could see them, there are angels holding the Jeep together.  Not that it rattles, or that there is anything that “I” can see wrong, but because that mechanic had told me the Jeep wasn’t worth repairing.

Right now the Jeep which took me through a very challenging year is sitting in a repair shop.  $2400-$2600 is the estimate to repair the transmission.

I think one of the angels must have gotten really tired!

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Celebrating Growing Older (Regina Brett)

Tuesday, August 25th, 2009

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio


“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.  It is the most-requested column I’ve ever written…My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1.       Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2.       When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3.       Life is too short to waste time hating anyone…

4.       Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick.  Your friends and parents will.  Stay in touch.

5.       Pay off your credit cards every month.

6.       You don’t have to win every argument.  Agree to disagree.

7.       Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8.       It’s OK to get angry with God.  He can take it.

9.       Save for retirement starting with your first pay check.

10.     When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11.     Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12.     It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13.     Don’t compare your life to others.  You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14.     If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15.     Everything can change in the blink of an eye.  But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16.     Take a deep breath.  It calms the mind.

17..     Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

18.     Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19.     It’s never too late to have a happy childhood.  But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20.     When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21.     Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.  Don’t save it for a special occasion, Today is special.

22.     Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23.     Be eccentric now.  Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24.     The most important sex organ is the brain.

25.     No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26.     Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27.     Always choose life.

28.     Forgive everyone and everything.

29.     What other people think of you is none of your business.

30.     Time heals almost everything.  Give it time.

31.     However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32.     Don’t take yourself so seriously.  No one else does.

33.     Believe in miracles.

34.     God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35.     Don’t audit life.  Show up and make the most of it now.

36.     Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37.     Your children get only one childhood.

38.     All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39.     Get outside every day.  Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40.     If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back…

41.     Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42.     The best is yet to come.

43.     No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44.     Yield.

45.     Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”

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